Ghanaian gospel musician, Mavis Asante, has encouraged single women not to be discouraged by negative narratives about marriage, insisting that marriage is a good institution that thrives on effort and commitment.
Speaking in an exclusive interview with Doreen Avio and Kwame Dadzie on Hitz FM, the singer shared her views when asked what advice she would give to a young or single woman who approaches her to ask whether marriage is worthwhile.
“Marriage is good. Don’t let anyone deceive you by telling you that marriage is bad or that when you marry your whole life has ended. Marriage is good,” she said.
According to Mavis Asante, while people may have different perceptions and even misconceptions about marriage, she firmly believes that it can be fulfilling when couples are intentional about making it work. She emphasized that just like careers and businesses require time, energy and dedication, marriage demands the same level of commitment.
“All the effort and energy you put into your career, businesses and other things you do, you have to put the same into your marriage and make sure it works,” she noted. She added that consistent effort leads to gradual improvement, especially when one is fortunate to have an understanding partner.
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Drawing from her own 15-year marriage, the gospel musician admitted that her journey has not been without challenges. She revealed that the early stages of her marriage were particularly difficult, describing them as tough and emotionally draining at times.
“It hasn’t been easy, especially in the initial stages. It’s very tough. I’ve cried. I’ve had my fair share of all the ugly sides of marriage. I’ve been through everything any other woman will go through in marriage,” she shared.
However, she explained that a lesson from a book she once read helped shape her perspective and strengthened her resolve during difficult times. The book, she said, emphasized that marriage gets better with time — a belief she held onto through challenging moments.
Despite the hurdles, Mavis Asante highlighted that there are certain boundaries that have never been crossed in her marriage. She stressed that her husband has never raised his hand against her, adding that whenever issues arise, he makes a conscious effort to change when she expresses discomfort.
She further revealed that transparency has been a cornerstone of their relationship. At a point in their marriage, the couple made a deliberate decision not to keep secrets from each other. According to her, this level of openness has strengthened their bond.
Mavis disclosed that she even knows her husband’s mobile money (MoMo) PIN, but they both respect the trust that comes with such openness and do not take advantage of it.
Her comments add to ongoing conversations about marriage and relationships in contemporary society, particularly among young people navigating varying opinions about the institution. For Mavis Asante, the message remains clear: marriage is good, but it requires patience, understanding and consistent effort from both partners.
