Renowned playwright and revered relationship expert, Uncle Ebo Whyte has disagreed with the prevalent belief that males are the dominant party in sexual encounters.
In a contrasting view, Uncle Ebo asserted that women actually wield the power and control during intimate moments.
Speaking on Last Saturday’s Showbiz 360 with Giovanni Caleb, he urged men to stop bragging about sex because they are not winners in sexual encounters.
“When a man sleeps with a woman, he tells his friends, ‘Oh, I finish am. But if you know who finished who, you will stop. You will not talk.”
“In any sexual encounter. The winner is not the man. It’s the woman. The man, all you did was you gave your energy, you gave your reputation, you gave opportunities. You gave all kinds of things,” he said.
Uncle Ebo advised men to uphold their dignity and self-respect, stating that failing to do so could result in negative consequences from hasty and careless decisions.
He stressed the significance of self-awareness and making wise decisions in order to prevent sacrificing one’s morals and integrity.
“When you understand that there’s the need for you to respect yourself, then you understand that this thing can bring you down. It can make you lose your respect and reputation like nothing else. And so be careful.
“An older friend of mine told me this. When you go to the forest and you find a table laid, walk away because you don’t know why the table is there,” he said.
Uncle Ebo Whyte and his Roverman Production is gearing up for a new play, I Want To Feed You.
The play comes off at the National Theatre, Accra from the September 6, 7th, 8th, 13th, 14th and September 15, 2024.
On Fridays, it will show at 7pm (one show only); however on Saturdays, there will be two shows – 4pm and 8pm.
But on Sundays, there will be three shows – 1pm, 4pm and 8pm.