Ghanaian gospel musician Celestine Donkor has urged married women, particularly Christian wives, not to allow a lack of intimacy to become the reason their marriages fall apart.
Speaking in a video sighted by Ameyaw Debrah Media, the music star described it as one of the saddest things for a married woman to experience a broken home because of a lack of sex, especially when she has been blessed with beauty and a body meant to be shared with her husband.
According to Celestine, intimacy plays an important role in marriage, and wives should not repeatedly withhold it from their husbands.
“The saddest thing to happen to you is to have a broken marriage because of lack of sex, when God has generously blessed you with beauty and a special hole meant to be enjoyed by your husband,” she said.
She went on to encourage married women to be generous with their husbands when it comes to intimacy, warning that consistently denying a spouse could have consequences for the relationship.
“If you don’t give it to your husband, who will you give it to? And I promise you, if you keep being stingy with your body towards your own husband, one day you will regret it. You will push a good man to the wall, to areas and to things you do not want to see,” she added.
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The ‘Supernatural’ hitmaker also shared what she believes is one of the most painful experiences for a husband. She said it can be heartbreaking for a man to gather the confidence to approach his wife for sex only to be turned away with excuses such as, “I am tired” or “leave me.”
“One painful thing is for a husband to be in the mood to have sex with his wife, gather confidence and muscles to approach his wife in bed only to be told ‘I am tired, leave me.’ It is so painful. It makes the man angry the whole night,” she said.
The award-winning singer further argued that if a husband cannot seek intimacy from his wife, it raises the question of where else he is expected to turn.
“Excuse me, if your husband that has married you shouldn’t touch you, who should he go and have sex with?” she questioned.
